Now you're being coy.

[ Jin Guangyao's hair is a safe space to touch so he goes back to petting it, curling it around his fingers as he gazes down at him thoughtfully. ]

Despite all your ... experience, [ to put it as politely as possible, ] I want to ask that you don't tell me how you got it. I don't want to know.

[ Because he would be jealous and mad at ghosts he has never met. ]