[ Sylvain murmurs the praise softly, letting his thumb brush back and forth along Dan Heng’s lower lip. he can feel him starting to relax against him - which had been the entire point. He’d hoped that by shutting the rest of the world out, it would stop being quite so overwhelming and the young man could just focus on what was happening here, between the two of them. ]
Considering where we are, there are lots of games that go into this particular flavor. For some it’s about power and being in control, for others it’s about trust. Sometimes it’s pain, or punishment, or cleansing. It can be a lot of things for different people, but it’s up to you to decide what you want out of it. What you like and don’t like.
Since you’ve never tried these games before, we’re going to start slow, and you’re going to control how far or how fast we go. I will still steer us, so to speak, but you will have just as much say in how we do it.
Safe words is something frequently used in these games. Often, people choose their own, but we’re just going to use the standard ones tonight while you get the hang of it. If you say ‘Green’ it means you’re good to continue, you’re enjoying what we’re doing. If you say ‘Yellow’, we’ve bumped against something that makes you uncomfortable or something you’re not ready for, or maybe you just want to slow down a little because I’m moving too fast. And if you say ‘Red’? We stop. No questions asked, no shame or guilt or anything to be embarrassed about.
Do you understand?
[ Sylvain actually has no idea why it’s always those colors (what is a stoplight even?) but he’s heard them used often enough in the Naked Yolk over the past year that it seemed an easy place to start. ]
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[ Sylvain murmurs the praise softly, letting his thumb brush back and forth along Dan Heng’s lower lip. he can feel him starting to relax against him - which had been the entire point. He’d hoped that by shutting the rest of the world out, it would stop being quite so overwhelming and the young man could just focus on what was happening here, between the two of them. ]
Considering where we are, there are lots of games that go into this particular flavor. For some it’s about power and being in control, for others it’s about trust. Sometimes it’s pain, or punishment, or cleansing. It can be a lot of things for different people, but it’s up to you to decide what you want out of it. What you like and don’t like.
Since you’ve never tried these games before, we’re going to start slow, and you’re going to control how far or how fast we go. I will still steer us, so to speak, but you will have just as much say in how we do it.
Safe words is something frequently used in these games. Often, people choose their own, but we’re just going to use the standard ones tonight while you get the hang of it. If you say ‘Green’ it means you’re good to continue, you’re enjoying what we’re doing. If you say ‘Yellow’, we’ve bumped against something that makes you uncomfortable or something you’re not ready for, or maybe you just want to slow down a little because I’m moving too fast. And if you say ‘Red’? We stop. No questions asked, no shame or guilt or anything to be embarrassed about.
Do you understand?
[ Sylvain actually has no idea why it’s always those colors (what is a stoplight even?) but he’s heard them used often enough in the Naked Yolk over the past year that it seemed an easy place to start. ]